Vulvas vs. Viagras

Today, I have the honor of hosting a powerful roundtable discussion titled Vulvas vs. Viagra—a bold, necessary conversation on women’s reproductive health. This isn’t just another talk; it’s a reclamation of space, a call for balance, and a moment of truth-telling about the gaps, the myths, and the real stories behind reproductive care for women and femmes.

I’ll be joined by three incredible guests, Jimeya Mayes (The Pleasue vessel), Toni Flemingo, and Lex Pettus (lexhavesextalk), each bringing their own expertise, lived experience, and voice to the table. Together, we’ll unpack the deep disparities between how society—and the healthcare system—treats male sexual health compared to female reproductive wellness.

The name Vulvas vs. Viagra speaks to that very imbalance. We live in a world where there’s no hesitation to prioritize the performance of men’s bodies, yet far too often, women’s pain, pleasure, and reproductive needs are overlooked, dismissed, or underfunded. From access to contraception and menstrual care to navigating menopause and sexual empowerment, we’re diving into it all.

This roundtable is more than discussion—it’s education, it’s advocacy, and it’s community. We’re holding space for real talk, open questions, and future-forward solutions.

So whether you're someone who works in public health, a curious community member, or just tired of the double standards—we invite you to listen in, engage, and challenge the systems that fail us.

Let’s make sure that conversations about reproductive health start including everyone—and that they’re rooted in equity, care, and truth.